Jon has been doing a lot of research recently about marketing professional skills online… and whatever that entails. He informed me that when writing blogs, I should include more “lists.” I’m not writing this to get a high number of followers, etc, but to playfully tip my hat to his idea, I’ve compiled a relevant list for today’s blog…
10 Reasons I Haven’t Blogged in Two and a Half Months!
(Look Jon, I even BOLDED each reason! Be proud.)
10. Duke won the NCAA Men’s Basketball National Championship! Â Jon is such an avid fan, March Madness doesn’t begin to cover the amount of time and energy he puts into the tournament season. Making brackets, analyzing statistics, watching as many of the games as possible… it’s exhausting! Thankfully, the boys pulled through this year, and we couldn’t be happier. The games gave me something to look forward to during the harsh cold that stubbornly hung around in March and April. The big win also meant we had to make the drive to Durham for the annual, end of season team banquet to hear Quinn Cook speak and personally congratulate the team. I mean, doesn’t everyone do that? Haha.
9. End of the semester schoolwork was rough. My classes this semester were very practical- particularly Food Legislation and Food Finance- but the reading was dry and the projects were detailed. I had creative license with the topics, and learned a lot about sourcing food in food deserts, the legalities of seafood labeling, how to build and analyze profit/loss statements for new businesses, and identified many of the cultural and structural barriers to street food (one of my personal interests). It was an exhausting, eye-opening, practical, and ultimately successful semester.
8. Visitors! Mid April we welcomed the first glimpse of Spring weather with a visit from my lovely friend, Rossie. I try to do something new/unique with each guest, and that weekend we experimented with the Citi Bike system throughout the city. It was so lovely to have a beautiful, relaxing weekend of exploring lower Manhattan/Brooklyn with such lovely company.
We also hosted Dawn and Rena (Jon’s Aunt) in mid-May for 8 days. This was the longest period of time we’ve had that may people in this apartment, and I would say it was a success! While they arrived at the beginning of a whirlwind (more on that later), we had a great time exploring and So. Many. Laughs! Â On their last day, Jon and Dawn’s Aunt Diane arrived in NYC for a serendipitous work trip, so we also had a chance to show her around midtown.
7. I’ve been participating in a book club since January, and have been really trying to keep up with the readings on top of my schoolwork. The book club meets in Durham, and it’s more about the sentimental group and staying connected with the people than the actual books (though each choice has been so unique and interesting). In March/April we read The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle by Haruki Murakami and in May we read Awake in the Dark by Shira Nayman. Intriguing for such different reasons, but I highly recommend both books. Let me know if you want more details or to borrow either book!
6.  Jon’s job; this is a difficult one for me to write because I’m very protective of my husband, but he approved this so I’m going for it. Jon was surprisingly let go from his Wowzers job on May 11. We did not see it coming, and his boss told him it had nothing to do with his performance but the company was not financially able to support him and two other employees any longer. To put this into perspective, he received this news at the end of a workday, the day of two of my final presentations, the day we arrived back in NYC from a busy weekend in NC with Dawn and Rena visiting. I think we were in shock for a few weeks afterward, and I’m not sure if we have let it sink in yet. Jon has been very proactive about applying and pursuing other opportunities, so fingers crossed because there are some exciting changes on the horizon. Every day brings news that feels like it is rearranging the puzzle of the next week, month, year of our life.
5. Internship searching! On top of everything else! In my graduate program, having as many varied experiences as possible is a high priority. In the first few weeks of the program, the faculty and professors were constantly telling us that we should get internships (several, if possible) during our time at NYU because that is how we figure out what our interests are and how to make money with this quirky (but completely important!)Â degree. In my opinion, the program does a decent job of connecting us with opportunities in the community. I receive an average of 10 emails a day from NYU with internship and job opportunities in the food studies realm, which is both overwhelming and encouraging. I’m also learning what my niche is in the subject area, and this whole experience in graduate school is teaching me that it is completely OK (and even occasionally celebrated) that my interests and thoughts and ideas are different from my peers and professors.
So, with that, I applied to several different opportunities in both NYC and NC for the summer and went through several different interview processes. I had to turn down two different offers but I have landed what I think will be the COOLEST summer internship of all. I am a Farm Educator Intern with City Growers, a nonprofit program for teaching city kids about where their food comes from. We work at the Brooklyn Grange, which is the largest rooftop farm in the world. It is comprised of two roofs, one in the Brooklyn Navy Yard and one in Long Island City, totally 2.5 acres. Each location has chickens, beehives, event space… it’s amazing. I’m sure I’ll have tons of funny stories about the kids and the farms as the summer progresses, but for now I’m practicing my seedling dances and compost chants!
4. It’s no secret that I’m recently (last 2-3 years) extremely proud of my hometown. Durham, NC has flourished in the last 10ish years, and moving away only highlighted all of the progress and unique attributes of the city I miss. For a class last fall, I wrote my final paper on the local food movement throughout the South, particularly in North Carolina. I’m really intrigued by the way Durham was literally built by tobacco companies, but has transformed into this local food hub with so many entrepreneurial ventures and community programs popping up every day. Using the research from my original paper, I proposed a more specific angle to the Southern Foodways Alliance Graduate Conference, and they accepted it! Last week I got the unexpected news that the Alliance would like me to present my topic at their annual conference in Oxford Mississippi in September. I’ll include the proposal in another blog, but I’m ecstatic and extremely nervous! For more info on the Southern Foodways Alliance, Click Here.
3. Wedding season is upon us! Jon and I have collectively attended 3 weddings already this year, and we have one more this summer. Jon’s close childhood friend Brandon and his amazing wife Cameron Link were married May 9 in Henderson NC. Jon and his sister attended while I was at my cousin’s graduation. What I’ve heard is they decorated with fire helmets (Brandon is a fireman), their daughter stole the show with her adorableness, and Jon did his first keg stand. Sounds like it was a blast, and I am so happy for them!
My close college friend Katie and her husband Derrick Calloway were wed this past weekend (June 13) in Roan Mountain, TN. This gave Jon and I a chance to spend some time with his sister in Boone, see our friends Josh, Callie, Lauren and Brian, as well as attend the beautiful mountain wedding. It was so great to catch up with Katie’s family, and to see her so glowingly happy.
… and just for giggles, here’s a flashback photo of the three of us in 2009…
2. Two Graduations also occupied my time this past month; my cousin Alex graduated with a degree in Psychology from UNC Wilmington in May, and my teeny tiny baby brother graduated from high school on June 10! Jon and I drove to NC with my cousin Joey, who was surprising Alex on graduation day. Juli met me in Durham and we carpooled to Wilmington together. It was so nice to be there for Alex on his day, and to spend some time with family. Congrats Alex/Steak Sauce!
Peter’s graduation this week was unfortunately marked with a broken down vehicle (poetically, the car all three of us drove throughout high school died in the parking lot at graduation!), but I hope that’s not what he remembers the most. I hope that feeling of having your name called, of the sweaty hugs in the courtyard afterward and the friendships he was lucky enough to sustain from kindergarten are more memorable than silly car trouble. And Juli and I’s pranks. He looked like a such a grown up in his graduation gown! SO WEIRD!
1. The #1 reason why I haven’t blogged in a while, bigger than all of the other reasons above, is I’ve been feeling extremely homesick. Weird, right? I’m doing well, but with everything going on it’s difficult being away from my closest friends and family. April and May were particularly tough, as all of the school work was piling on and the summer was so up in the air (NC or NY?) that any moment I paused to think and feel and analyze my emotions would end in tears. There are so many amazing things happening, and quickly, so I’m hoping that once things settle down and are more solid I will not feel so needy and melancholy. Or I’ll continue going at lightning speed and it will all be great! 🙂